I'm a french newbie user

Coming from Jeedom and other domotics solution, i move to zoneminder due to lack possibility on motion detection after tried shinobi, surveillance station on my QNAP etc.
I've installed into a VM with 2 processors, 4 Gb of RAM on my QNAP 453A (N3150 1.6 GHz with 16 GB) with Debian 9 distro updated. My cameras are Wanscam HW38 (3), 1 doorbird DS101 and 2 xiaomi xiafang.
Is debian is the best distro to use ZM ?
I have installed ZM using this wiki :
https://wiki.zoneminder.com/Debian_9_64 ... e_Easy_Way
and i do the change for /tmp in the menu to /dev/shm.
I have configured all my cameras using RTSP and it's working (no an easy point especially for my xiafang cameras).
And I have a lot of questions :
- when i set the resolution to the max resolution of my cameras (1920x1080 for xiaofang, 1280x1024 for wanscam, 1280x720 for doorbird), the /dev/shm will be more 100% and I saw a lot of trouble on IP cameras value (goes in red). I have understand that my poor QNAP will be not be sufficient to use these resolutions. I moved to 640x480 and after 1024x768 and now the /dev/shm will be near 33% (with modect on 4 cameras, 2 on monitor).
I search for a rex on this point, VM on my QNAP is a good idea to use ZM or do you recommand to use a NUC in direct with i3/i5 processor ?
Other point, i saw a charge of > 4 (between 4.4 and 5), so i've decided to upgrade the number of VM's processors from 2 to 4. But now, the charge will go more than 6 ! My QNAP will virtualize a small VM of debian 8 (with 1 proc/1 gb) for a bluetooth antenna (with no charge...) and this VM (and other services like plex, etc).
- when i launch a console i saw a lot of error "message" from syslogd and i can't type anything in the console.


- all my wanscam cameras are in PLC and Ethernet connexion through a switch GB ; the doorbird is in ethernet direct connexion without PLC and Xiafang are in wifi. All my network is managed by a ASUS RT5300 + ASUS RT68U in Aimesh. Of course,
When i saw the log, i saw a lot of trouble !


and when i saw the console, the IPs will go from green to red ; all my cameras... alternatively (1 in red, after 2 in red for example etc).

I have other questions after... but now i try to install / use correctly my ZM installation
